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Sunday, March 6, 2011

"Foolish" Relationship on Internet?

Recently, many people can connect with another ones who live from the same country or from abroad by chatting on Facebook, Google talk, Yahoo Messenger or maybe on another chat room. I have experienced in this with many friends from various country, Maroco, Pakistan, Afghanistan, and another country which I can not mention one by one. From the beginning, I just want to improve my English and knowledge by sharing ideas with them, but somehow the topic of our discussion started to get biased, touched the "awkward" matters. Talking about love and anything related to that. I could be tolerable with what my partner in chatting wanted at that time, due to my desire in improving English. I thought it was a "normal" exchange, if they wanted to talk about it because they are males. The most important thing for me, I could have partner for being more knowledgeable and being more excellent in English. Be honest, I felt being so crazy with English, and I thought it could be so precious chance for getting free online English course. I could speak with them as well. Times went by, and I got a bit bored with talking about the love matters and anything related with it. I often fought with them due to boredom and misunderstanding, and mostly ended up with broken relationship.
A few days ago, my friend on internet, a girl from abroad, told me that she got heart ache due to his Boy friend on net left her for some reason and did not want to talk with her anymore. She felt so hurt and lonely. She has got along with him for more than one year, and finally their relationship has been broken up. Nothing left, only pain and sadness. It might be very stupid and foolish thing but it s the fact. Anyone can be broken hearted after having "very strange" relationship. Something absurd can be happened everywhere not only in real life but also in Cyber world. How come and Why? That is because of they have involved in this kind of relation with all of their heart, if it s analogous to the activity of diving...they re diving too deep, and finally they sink. They should not take it so seriously, or if they want to dive, they should stay on the surface, by doing this, they will never sink. Mostly guys (males) do not consider all kind of relationships on internet as anything seriously, so they never feel hurt with whatever happened, the relation will be ruined or not they never mind. Otherwise for mostly females, due to their soft feelings, n they rarely use their logic, they become so easily being hurtful. That is the significant difference between male and females regarding the "Foolish and strange" relationship on internet.
By analysing many experiences, we should learn from those. We must get benefit from Cyber world and just avoid for getting great loss. People who get heart ache after having "foolish" relationship, it means they get great loss because they sacrifice their feeling only for something in vain. If people want to chat, and share ideas with many friends around the world, just make it as something fun, no need to involve our heart and feeling with something unreal and imaginative. Our partner in chatting s real existing but we only connect them from Cyber world, why we must consider them as if they truly come in our real life......so sad but it s true...:(

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