We all know that in the early of 21th century high technology as like internet provide facilities for people to connect with others around the world. They can meet one another in chat room, for sharing ideas. But from this activity, they tend to talk not only about good things but also about love matters and more than that they can touch "annoying and abusing" topic. They found themselves falling in love, and they engaged in Cyber romance. Through electronic contact they can build private relationship, even though they are separated one another by many miles away. Unfortunately, many relationship should end up with sadness and heart ache due to some reason.
Mostly people wondered, how can people engage in Cyber Love finally suffered from heart ache and pain? They think it is so naive and illogical...But it is the fact and truly happened. In chat line they meet then they talk and share about everything. Dominated in their mind by lots of imaginative things, they involved their heart feeling while chatting. For the initial moment, mostly males enjoyed all as something serious as well, but suddenly they realize that they will be stupid if doing so. Their logic soon be awakened, so they become more realistic, otherwise their partners (females) stay and stand on their "fixed positions", they hardly release their faked and imaginative love. They trust that their hearts have been truly captured and they should stay there with "sincere love". So tragic, but mostly women have been the victims of faked cyber love.
Of course, it is so hard to heal the painful heart. They get depressed for unreasonable things. Guys and women engaged in similar circumstances but ironically women get great loss due to they sacrifice their feeling. They are powerless after getting trapped, and often they realize it too late.
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Actually many people who do not know well about cyber relationship never thinking that finally if the relation ends up, nothing left, except sadness, pain, and disappointment...as terrible as what happened in real life...In this case. we should learn from others' experiences and it' s better to have more awareness for preventing ourselves to get trapped and being deceived. We only know our partner from meeting and chatting electronically, and we can not recognize their real personality. It might be they hide anything perfectly and perform as if they are good guys.
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The women should open their eyes, no need to be so sensitive, they must learn from others' experiences. Many guys often use them as the "objects" of their imagination. If necessary, they can use many tricks or maybe also deceitful things to get their goals, bad or right ones? Just increase our consciousness that no need to take seriously what happened on cyber world. We can also get many advices regarding this case by reading many articles from appropriate websites. If they can use females as their objects..why we can not do the same things? We can get benefit by chatting with them, we redirect them to the good and valuable topics...and by doing this we can enrich our knowledge, sharpen our brain. make us more intelligent and so on.
Best way for the women to at least minimize the unwanted effect that may come in this relationship, they can give some bargaining to the men, by giving them "an option", if they want to chat with us, they must fulfill our "rule of the game". Just a simply thing to use them as our "co-worker", if they can not stand with certain "requirement" just let them go away. We can get another ones who can be good friends and be unselfish ones....Do not think that women are always powerless and have no bargaining power. As human-being we also have the same brain, just empowering this for getting the same position and grade as like another guys. So we can be wonderful women which no one can hurt n insult us anymore. Show to the World that no reason to underestimate and insult women because we are equal to men.
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